Comments on: Visitation dreams: When the Veil between Worlds is Thin http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin the dream studies portal Wed, 23 May 2012 21:43:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Heather http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-197064 Heather Wed, 28 Mar 2012 02:01:31 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-197064 U know everytime the thought of giving him a kiss I didn't, like something n some way put it n me not to. I just could hug him... U know everytime the thought of giving him a kiss I didn’t, like something n some way put it n me not to. I just could hug him…

]]> By: Heather http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-197062 Heather Wed, 28 Mar 2012 02:00:48 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-197062 U know everytime the thought of giving him a kiss I didn't, like something n some way put it n me not to. I just could hug him... Strange. I'm still waiting for this sign tho lol U know everytime the thought of giving him a kiss I didn’t, like something n some way put it n me not to. I just could hug him… Strange. I’m still waiting for this sign tho lol

]]> By: Stephanie http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-196154 Stephanie Mon, 26 Mar 2012 21:33:08 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-196154 One thing that I did find odd, we weren't really allowed to hug or to give each other a kiss on the cheek. However, we could hold hands. Also we didn't have to open our mouths to talk. It was all thought, like telepathy. No sadness or grief, pain anything bad did not exist there. From the second you open your eyes there tears would actually evaporate immediately and all those feelings were gone. One thing that I did find odd, we weren’t really allowed to hug or to give each other a kiss on the cheek. However, we could hold hands. Also we didn’t have to open our mouths to talk. It was all thought, like telepathy. No sadness or grief, pain anything bad did not exist there. From the second you open your eyes there tears would actually evaporate immediately and all those feelings were gone.

]]> By: Stephanie http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-196137 Stephanie Mon, 26 Mar 2012 21:10:29 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-196137 That was what I thought every time I visited my grandpa. Every single time we are outside. Walking and talking. Usually during a hard time in my life. Maybe we are going to each other? I am a Christian, so I know he is in heaven. I don't think where we meet is exactly heaven but a lot closer than where we are right now. I do know this the colors are far more vivid, the breeze dries every tear before it could be seen, it's so peaceful and pure love and understanding. There is a place there in my dream that others who are alive go to meet their loved ones that are also deceased. It is definitely heavenly. I would rather stay there then come back here. It's always accepting, loving, complete peace and comforting to be there. I could talk about it forever. There are so many things that people who have had a visitation remember. You don't remember a dream in detail usually forever. I haven't forgotten one detail. Except our conversation. I don't remember that in detail. I have had a handful of these dreams. Mostly about my papaw. The others we're my mamas. The last one I had I thought to myself I shouldn't be able to do this. I was immediately sucked back into my body, and have never had another dream or visitation of either of them. I am very sad about that. I pray that in the future I will once again be allowed to visit them. That was what I thought every time I visited my grandpa. Every single time we are outside. Walking and talking. Usually during a hard time in my life. Maybe we are going to each other? I am a Christian, so I know he is in heaven. I don’t think where we meet is exactly heaven but a lot closer than where we are right now. I do know this the colors are far more vivid, the breeze dries every tear before it could be seen, it’s so peaceful and pure love and understanding. There is a place there in my dream that others who are alive go to meet their loved ones that are also deceased. It is definitely heavenly. I would rather stay there then come back here. It’s always accepting, loving, complete peace and comforting to be there. I could talk about it forever. There are so many things that people who have had a visitation remember. You don’t remember a dream in detail usually forever. I haven’t forgotten one detail. Except our conversation. I don’t remember that in detail. I have had a handful of these dreams. Mostly about my papaw. The others we’re my mamas. The last one I had I thought to myself I shouldn’t be able to do this. I was immediately sucked back into my body, and have never had another dream or visitation of either of them. I am very sad about that. I pray that in the future I will once again be allowed to visit them.

]]> By: dawn http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-175710 dawn Sun, 26 Feb 2012 02:58:52 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-175710 I was hired to help a family clean and prepare a room so their father could come home to die. The father, whom I never met, was in the hospital and Hospice would not allow him to be brought home due to the condition of his home. He and his wife are, were, hoarders. So, the daughters and I spent all day doing back breaking work tearing out carpets and making the areas clean and clear as instructed by Hospice. They paid me and I left. I didn't tell the family but I really hurt myself while working and was in a lot of pain. I pulled nails out of his bedroom floor for 6 hours. For the next two days I was shrilling in pain everywhere I went. On the third night I had also gotten food poisioning. I was in bed suffering so much. Then that night I was asleep but felt like I woke up. A man I have never seen was standing in my door with a box of tissues. I was screaming bloody murder because their was a man in my room. I was even cusing at him! He walked right over to my bed, right at my head. He never said a word. He just smiled at me and tried to hand me this box of tissues. I reached out and touched him because he was right at my head. Then in a moment he was gone. I didn't put two and two together until a couple of days later the daughter called to tell me that her father had passed. It just so happened that it was on the same night that a man came in my room. I didn't want to tell her. I am still thinking - how could this man, who never met me, know where I lived, who I am, or that I was hurt. Could this really have been the man who passed? I may never know. It's never happened again. I was hired to help a family clean and prepare a room so their father could come home to die. The father, whom I never met, was in the hospital and Hospice would not allow him to be brought home due to the condition of his home. He and his wife are, were, hoarders. So, the daughters and I spent all day doing back breaking work tearing out carpets and making the areas clean and clear as instructed by Hospice. They paid me and I left. I didn’t tell the family but I really hurt myself while working and was in a lot of pain. I pulled nails out of his bedroom floor for 6 hours. For the next two days I was shrilling in pain everywhere I went. On the third night I had also gotten food poisioning. I was in bed suffering so much. Then that night I was asleep but felt like I woke up. A man I have never seen was standing in my door with a box of tissues. I was screaming bloody murder because their was a man in my room. I was even cusing at him! He walked right over to my bed, right at my head. He never said a word. He just smiled at me and tried to hand me this box of tissues. I reached out and touched him because he was right at my head. Then in a moment he was gone. I didn’t put two and two together until a couple of days later the daughter called to tell me that her father had passed. It just so happened that it was on the same night that a man came in my room. I didn’t want to tell her. I am still thinking – how could this man, who never met me, know where I lived, who I am, or that I was hurt. Could this really have been the man who passed? I may never know. It’s never happened again.

]]> By: Heather http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-90081 Heather Thu, 13 Oct 2011 18:49:46 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-90081 I have had 3 dreams of my late ex fieance. 1st one the day after he died.. N this dream I was on the phone fighting with his sister and then I hung up and he called me asking me what was going on. And I was trying to explain to him, and he said hold on I'll be right there. Well I looked around this room I was in.. A white kinda dim lit room and then I seen him pull up and when I open the door I just grabbed him and hugged him. I could feel him and smell him. And I remember everything he had on. But he was talking to me but he was just smiling and his mouth wasn't moving but I could hear him.. He told me sry for everything and he said other things to me. But he was really sry and so I hugged him again and he said he had to go bc "she" was waiting for him.. Idk who she was if it was his new gf or what?? But then my latest dream I had was when I got to this place I told myself, ok u know when u find him u gotta ask him some questions and u can't forget. So I went around this corner of this building and there he was working on something n back of a truck... So I stopped and just stood there and he looked up and smiled and said, "hey! U made it back" and I told him before I wake up I need to ask u a few things.. And he said ok. And I asked him if he still loved me. And he smiles and said yes I do. And then I asked him how is it where u are and he said that he was a little bored and I kinda looked at him like huh?? And he smirked and said I know right? And I remember asking these questions so fast bc I wanted to get them all out before I work up. So my last question was when am I gonna be with u again? And he said a month and a day of the week ( which I am not saying) and then he started to talk about this watch n this magazine. And explaining it and I was thinking to myself... Y r u talking about a stupid watch don't u know we have limited time before I wake up? And I inturruped him and said is this real or am I n a dream!? And he laughed at me again and said.. U see this watch??? When u see this watch on this certain page ( he gave me a number) that will be ur sign... Then I just looked at him for a sec then I felt my self waking up.. Now I don't know if I'm crazy bc he ment a great deal to me. Or if this is real. There's more details on things but i just kinda gave u the run down on it. But most stories i read are the spirits coming to u not you going to them... I have had 3 dreams of my late ex fieance. 1st one the day after he died.. N this dream I was on the phone fighting with his sister and then I hung up and he called me asking me what was going on. And I was trying to explain to him, and he said hold on I’ll be right there. Well I looked around this room I was in.. A white kinda dim lit room and then I seen him pull up and when I open the door I just grabbed him and hugged him. I could feel him and smell him. And I remember everything he had on. But he was talking to me but he was just smiling and his mouth wasn’t moving but I could hear him.. He told me sry for everything and he said other things to me. But he was really sry and so I hugged him again and he said he had to go bc “she” was waiting for him.. Idk who she was if it was his new gf or what?? But then my latest dream I had was when I got to this place I told myself, ok u know when u find him u gotta ask him some questions and u can’t forget. So I went around this corner of this building and there he was working on something n back of a truck… So I stopped and just stood there and he looked up and smiled and said, “hey! U made it back” and I told him before I wake up I need to ask u a few things.. And he said ok. And I asked him if he still loved me. And he smiles and said yes I do. And then I asked him how is it where u are and he said that he was a little bored and I kinda looked at him like huh?? And he smirked and said I know right? And I remember asking these questions so fast bc I wanted to get them all out before I work up. So my last question was when am I gonna be with u again? And he said a month and a day of the week ( which I am not saying) and then he started to talk about this watch n this magazine. And explaining it and I was thinking to myself… Y r u talking about a stupid watch don’t u know we have limited time before I wake up? And I inturruped him and said is this real or am I n a dream!? And he laughed at me again and said.. U see this watch??? When u see this watch on this certain page ( he gave me a number) that will be ur sign… Then I just looked at him for a sec then I felt my self waking up.. Now I don’t know if I’m crazy bc he ment a great deal to me. Or if this is real. There’s more details on things but i just kinda gave u the run down on it. But most stories i read are the spirits coming to u not you going to them…

]]> By: Rose http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-1001 Rose Fri, 15 Oct 2010 07:24:00 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-1001 I am so glad to have found this site. It verifies and matches the visitation dreams I've had. My partner passed away in September 2009. I've had only 2 visitation dreams from him, one about a month after he passed away, the other about 6 months after he passed away. The first one occurred in the kitchen of the house I was staying in, the last one was in the bed I was sleeping in while it happened. In both dreams I could literally feel his skin like it was in real life. In the first one we just hugged, I said I was so happy to see him and that was it. The second one, I was lying on my side in bed when suddenly I felt arms around me. I turned over and he was lying there, smiling at me. I said to him "I can actually feel your arms around me!" And he just smiled so widely at me. He looked so happy, and just the same as he did before he passed away. (It was sudden so he was healthy before he passed). We just hugged and said I love you. I said to him "will you wait for me?" and he said "of course I will". Then I felt him "pulling away", saying he had to go. I didn't want him to but he left and then the dream ended. I woke up remembering it all very clearly. It was quite a simple, quick dream, but meant so much to me. I pray every night to have another. I am so glad to have found this site. It verifies and matches the visitation dreams I’ve had. My partner passed away in September 2009. I’ve had only 2 visitation dreams from him, one about a month after he passed away, the other about 6 months after he passed away. The first one occurred in the kitchen of the house I was staying in, the last one was in the bed I was sleeping in while it happened. In both dreams I could literally feel his skin like it was in real life. In the first one we just hugged, I said I was so happy to see him and that was it. The second one, I was lying on my side in bed when suddenly I felt arms around me. I turned over and he was lying there, smiling at me. I said to him “I can actually feel your arms around me!” And he just smiled so widely at me. He looked so happy, and just the same as he did before he passed away. (It was sudden so he was healthy before he passed). We just hugged and said I love you. I said to him “will you wait for me?” and he said “of course I will”. Then I felt him “pulling away”, saying he had to go. I didn’t want him to but he left and then the dream ended. I woke up remembering it all very clearly. It was quite a simple, quick dream, but meant so much to me. I pray every night to have another.

]]> By: Ryan Hurd http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-1000 Ryan Hurd Sat, 04 Sep 2010 14:22:29 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-1000 Hi Sarah, I'm sorry to hear how you're suffering. If this were my dream, even though the dreams are painful, I'd think it is good sign I am now grieving in the dream itself. Emotional dreams that are so transparent can have a cathartic effect -- in other words, these dreams are moving through a grieving process... a painfully slow one. Also, if it were my dream, I'd notice how once again how male figures are "taking" from my relationship with my mother -- a critical voice that says "This isn't valuable!" and another who steals the coins altogether. Even though Mom is gone, the dreams reveal energies and patterns that are still present. Therapists who work with dreams in your area may help: not all therapists do work with dreams, so shop around and ask this upfront. Many are available for a small fee or on a sliding scale. Also there may be dream groups in you area (see this list for regional contacts for the International Association for the Study of Dreams: http://www.asdreams.org/idxmembership_contacts.htm Because this is so personal, I also invite you to contact me privately by email to continue the discussion: http://dreamstudies.org/about/ Hi Sarah,

I’m sorry to hear how you’re suffering. If this were my dream, even though the dreams are painful, I’d think it is good sign I am now grieving in the dream itself. Emotional dreams that are so transparent can have a cathartic effect — in other words, these dreams are moving through a grieving process… a painfully slow one. Also, if it were my dream, I’d notice how once again how male figures are “taking” from my relationship with my mother — a critical voice that says “This isn’t valuable!” and another who steals the coins altogether. Even though Mom is gone, the dreams reveal energies and patterns that are still present.

Therapists who work with dreams in your area may help: not all therapists do work with dreams, so shop around and ask this upfront. Many are available for a small fee or on a sliding scale. Also there may be dream groups in you area (see this list for regional contacts for the International Association for the Study of Dreams:
http://www.asdreams.org/idxmembership_contacts.htm

Because this is so personal, I also invite you to contact me privately by email to continue the discussion: http://dreamstudies.org/about/

]]> By: sarah http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-999 sarah Fri, 03 Sep 2010 16:17:58 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-999 hi again ryan again another disturbing dream. i drempt i was lookin in a drawer and found 2 silver dollars the date on the was 1984 then suddenly my heart ached for her. i cried and cried so hard just like it was the day it happened. i then took the coins to a shop where this man was a sheriff from the western days he said they were worthsss seven dollars and fifty cents now. a man came in and stole one of them. then i went down to a room where people were watching a westren show my mom was a actactor in the movie. then i relized she again was passed on and i cried and cried again so hard. today i am carring this sadness with me do dpepressed feeling over everything. god how can i get tbhese dreams to stop.? i am so tierd of these terrible dreams. i have tired counsling ect nothing is helping any ideas i juat dont know if maybe my mom is telling me something and wont let go hi again ryan again another disturbing dream. i drempt i was lookin in a drawer and found 2 silver dollars the date on the was 1984 then suddenly my heart ached for her. i cried and cried so hard just like it was the day it happened. i then took the coins to a shop where this man was a sheriff from the western days he said they were worthsss seven dollars and fifty cents now. a man came in and stole one of them. then i went down to a room where people were watching a westren show my mom was a actactor in the movie. then i relized she again was passed on and i cried and cried again so hard. today i am carring this sadness with me do dpepressed feeling over everything. god how can i get tbhese dreams to stop.? i am so tierd of these terrible dreams. i have tired counsling ect nothing is helping any ideas i juat dont know if maybe my mom is telling me something and wont let go

]]> By: Ryan Hurd http://dreamstudies.org/2009/10/29/visitation-dreams-when-the-veil-between-worlds-is-thin/comment-page-1/#comment-998 Ryan Hurd Tue, 31 Aug 2010 00:30:28 +0000 http://dreamstudies.org/?p=1487#comment-998 Sarah, that second dream offers a clue for a meditation to help cleanse away the "foul-smelling" dreams. Clear running water. Next time you pray, or whenever you want to give your mom positive attention, focus on that clear running stream. Imagine the water, how it feels, running over your feet and her feet. Imagine it washing away all the negativity, hurt, and pain. It's still important, of course, to let yourself feel your pain and anger, but it seems to me that this imagery is what your dream unconscious has suggested for cleansing the hurt when you are ready. take care, Ryan Sarah,
that second dream offers a clue for a meditation to help cleanse away the “foul-smelling” dreams. Clear running water. Next time you pray, or whenever you want to give your mom positive attention, focus on that clear running stream. Imagine the water, how it feels, running over your feet and her feet. Imagine it washing away all the negativity, hurt, and pain. It’s still important, of course, to let yourself feel your pain and anger, but it seems to me that this imagery is what your dream unconscious has suggested for cleansing the hurt when you are ready.

take care, Ryan

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